For four years, I had not sat at a dinner table with my parents in the same room. Not for the hollowed-out silence of a lonely Christmas, not for the performative gratitude of Thanksgiving, not even for my own birthday. I was the “independent” daughter, the one who had moved away, built a career, and required no maintenance. Or so the narrative went.

When my parents finally agreed to fly south to visit me, the old ache in my chest transformed into a frantic, hopeful energy. I wanted everything to be flawless. I paid for the entire excursion without a second thought: two roundtrip tickets, checked bag fees, airport town cars, and even a luxury rental car so they wouldn’t feel tethered to my schedule.